Showing posts with label please pass the divorce. Show all posts
Showing posts with label please pass the divorce. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

PLEASE PASS THE DIVORCE!


Happy Thanksgiving!


That's "Wilbur the Ugly Turkey".



Yikes what a day Wednesday was! I spent most of it on the divorce. Yeah... I think I need to get that pushed through. Met with StbX to do some notary stuff that we needed to do. The law changed on me and we had to do some forms to compensate for the newly required additions. Plus I added one that Deer Hunter told me about... the no waiting one. It waives your need to sit and wait for them to finish processing it. A judge looks at it and bangs his gavel and you are done. Yes sir-eee-bob, that's the divorce for me.


Did I ever tell you that I am a terrible procrastinator? Oh you guessed? Yes, I am.
But this I had to get done. Its way past due. I knew we had to do the changes. When I turned the final paper work back in today and the lady there looked it over and told me that there were new laws that required new forms to be added... I damn near cried.



I told her "You do not understand. I am going to go insane if I don't get this finished."




She was very sympathetic and gave me a hug and said "I promise you are almost done. This is the last thing you have to do. And I'll be here on Friday." So I pinned her down to an appointment time...and got her word again that this is it.
Do it yourself divorce is very stressful.



If all goes as she promised, then this time on Friday... I am going to no more be a Mrs.S


YAY!



My name will suddenly be my maiden name again.



Trippy!



I thought about that on the way home. How odd will that be? I'll have to change all sorts of stuff... my license for one. My employment stuff, my banking. Geez... this stuff never ends. But I don't want to be an S anymore. That family... my kids excluded... are whack! I might be too, but I'd rather be "me" than one of "them". Besides, my maiden name is very strange and not easily pronounced. I always had fun with that. Imagine how the school kids will deal with that one!



I can lose the initials "B.S."


hee hee



Of course I do not much care for the initials "B.K."


I'll use "R.K." instead. Don't want to be confused with a fast food
burger joint.




Well wish me luck with it. Thanks to Deer Hunter my troubles may soon be less. That felt good once I got over the disappointment of not having it happen today.



Okay... enough glee over that. On to turkey day.


Menu is simple. Bird, yams, salad, dressing, mashed potatoes and gravy. Pecan pie for desert.


Family: Boo, Squeaky, StbX and Max. I didn't think that Max was going to make it. Very sad about that, but he did. So the house will be full of boys. Cool beans.


As for the frog pond. Hummmm... not a lot to say there either. Still communicating with the ones that I have been communicating with for a time. I am supposed to meet D on Friday. I have learned not to trust that a meeting will happen. And the plan has been on again and off again. We'll see about that... if.
Lost a frog that I didn't have much interest in. Maybe that's why huh?
But gained one new one. Hummm...The pond is a strange place.


Enjoy!


BTW I don't expect many of you to show up today.


You are excused. But remember to push your chair in when you leave please.